On November 2011 I was
hanging out with whom at that time was my roommate, looking for a good spot to
eat. I had presented her one of my friends via facebook and they had kept
communications so that they he called her and asked her to put me on the
phone. So, we started chatting and he asked if I was single, at that time
I was “dating” someone but it wasn't official since he never asked me to be his
girlfriend, so I said yes. Right there
he tells me he was next to his best friend and he wanted me to get to know him because
he was a good man.
I told him I wasn't interested in meeting anyone at that moment, but he kept insisting telling me
how he looked physically, and that he was mature, respectful and looking for a
serious relationship. So I asked him to send me a picture of his friend,
and to my luck, I had been looking at this guys picture for the longest on
facebook in my friends page. I always thought to myself that he was very
handsome but yet again he's in the Army and there's no way I would date or look
at any military man. Anyway continuing... I told my friend to give him my
number and in less than a minute we were already texting. Then it became
constant phone calls until he finally decided to call me through facetime.
Like I had said before, I
was seeing someone and I decided not to talk to Josean (my husband) anymore. So I literally ignored all his text messages,
his calls I simply erased him out of my life.
On January I decided I was better off alone and after several misunderstandings
with the person I was dating we officially stopped seeing each other.
And yes, I contacted Josean
again; this time he was the one that ignored my calls and my text messages so I
stopped. I began to pray and asked God
so many questions, what was I doing wrong to deserve this emptiness I was
feeling inside my heart. And there it
was a mysterious call telling me he was in Puerto Rico on vacations and wanted
to meet me in person.
So, I accepted, we met at
a gas station because I did not want to go out to dinner, or to his family’s
house or mine. That day we talked so
much we were like 3 hours on a nonstop conversation and I was so nervous it was
obvious. We basically hung out for 2
whole weeks and before he left my words were “I am not a booty call, I’m
looking for a serious relationship, I feel like a flower that everybody looks
yet they just walk away”. And Josean then told me, “I know you are scared,
but if you let me I will protect you like the most valuable flower that has
ever existed”. I told him “flowers die
after a while” and he said “there is something about you that I know will keep
this love growing”. (He only get’s my
fake flowers now and I LOVE THEM)
LOVE??? I mean this guys doesn't even know me but indeed it was the most passionate, sincere love I have
ever experienced. We officially started
dating January 27th, 2012. We
were on a long distance relationship for 8 months. Where we would face-time, text, and email
each other and we traveled 3 times to see each other.
When We First Met
But there was a burden inside of me, I
continued to pray and one day the only words that came out of my mouth was “we
cannot continue with this long distance relationship” we were spending money and to me our
time. I trusted him but I just didn't feel like continuing with something that to me was going to end up breaking my
heart. And there it was only 4 words
came out of his mouth “WILL YOU MARRY ME”.
Of course I said yes and on
September 7, 2012 we became one. We got married by court, and on December
12, 2012 I moved to North Carolina.
Yes we had a short
relationship, but we know that God put each other together for a reason.
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